
xx. okay, so i’m currently in a situation with someone & i’d like to know if i’m in the wrong. under the cut is the situation & i’d appreciate if you’d let me know if you agree with me. also, i should be on more frequently this weekend, hopefully.
so this girl’s birthday was yesterday, but, according to her, no one remembered it (which a complete lie because there were balloons on her locker). at lunch, she came to our table crying about how her birthday was forgotten about and all that jazz. she then proceeded to mention my long-time best friend who was also in the school. she’s on her dais (or court) for my best friend’s sweet 16, so she said “i’m on her dais. she should’ve remembered my birthday. it’s the least she can do, since i’m buying a dress for her sweet 16.” and that really bothered me. so my friends and i at the table sang happy birthday, but she still wasn’t happy. & then we offered to go out on friday together to make it up to her and she literally shouted at us “NO. I don’t want to go with you guys. I’m going out with my real best friend who actually remembered my birthday.” so we kinda just gave up.
today, you would think she would’ve stopped talking about it since we did everything we could have to cheer her up. of course she didn’t (keep in mind, this girl tends to make everything a soap opera). what pissed me off is that she was still talking about my best friend very shitily. she was saying things like, “she didnt even say happy birthday to me. the least she could do is say happy birthday. i’m buying a $500 dress for her dias because that’s the one she wants me to get…” & that’s total bullshit because 1. the place she’s getting the dress from has short dresses like what she needs for max. $250. 2. the girl did say happy birthday, she just was pissed that she didn’t say it to her in the morning.
anyway, i saw my best friend in the distance and i remembered i had to ask her something about driver’s ed. so i said, “i’ll be back. i need to ask about driver’s ed.” so i walked away and asked the girl. when she had answered my question, i proceeded to say “ , did you wish ––––– a happy birthday yesterday?” and she answered yes. and i said “well, that’s not what she’s saying. she keeps saying you never wished her a happy birthday and that you completely forgot and that saying it was the least you can do for making her buy a $500 dress.” and this girl was like “i’ve never done any of those things. i wished her happy birthday in the afternoon, but she was mad because i didn’t say it in the morning.” & i swear to a higher being, the girl who was complaining was watching my every move. once i got back to the table, this girl was like “what the fuck? why’d you tell her?” and i was like “you said you she didn’t say it and i wanted to make sure of it.” and she was like “what the fuck, ashley? i didn’t tell you to.” and she got pissed off and walked away.
i’ll be honest, i don’t think i did anything wrong. i let my best friend know that someone was talking shit about her. i mean, i’m not upset that this girl isn’t talking to me, i just feel like i properly defended my long-time best friend.